me in my society

oohh you so beautiful,

you look pretty,

you look hot,

you are amazing,

Hello my readers i hope, you know that you are all of the above things, but i hope you don't need anybody's approval to believe that. But even if you feel  from time to time you need someone to tell you these words, i think i can totally feel you, i go through this too. Its a feeling of being accepted, its feeling of being able to prove your presence. i totally feel it.

This society is totally hypocrite, it tells you to be real, but they believe the reel life. It tells you to be who you are, but they fancy the fake reality, don't we? yes we do, or at least i can confirm for myself. But do you know, Sometimes its not about people its about us, sometimes we need to make time for ourselves, you don't loose time when you introspect, when you question yourself, you question your own reality, you question, are you being fare to your yourself, is it worth any satisfaction?

LET me tell you a story, of a geek girl who loved the fancy world, this 15 year old girl, one day decided to be part of it, she left her old geek friends to be with with new famous and cool kids of her school, she is 20 now and she is pretty much so lost in that new world she created for herself that she lost all her dreams in it and pretty much knows that her future is blurred. Do she regret being here ?well all i can say is NO, no  she doesn't regret being part of this fancy world, she actually found this addicting that she wants to stay its part, you must be thinking that what kind of vivid ending to the story. The reason is that some times you need to loose something in order to gain something. She never felt right to be with her old friends because she never was part of it, beacause sometimes its about being accepted, and sometimes its about gaining something. Sometimes you don't look for future cause you never know what it carries for you, you don't decide your future, all you can do is fight for it. well even that 20 year old grown up kid is also fighting.

Well being part of society is not difficult and being accepted is easy when you have right set of surrounding or friends, cause they are the once who mold you, make you who you are, that 15 year old girl got new friends that mold her, made her who she is because acceptance makes you feel confident and that creates courage for you to be real,  its easier to be who you are when you know there are people who accept your reality. your society should start and end with your loved once, your friends and family, don't let others decide your reality. 

MAKE YOUR OWN WORLD.

Don't be where you feel neglected and if you dare to be,  have confidence to stay and show the real you don't change according to your surroundings it takes away the most important part of you,  it takes away YOU. So never let anyone take that away from you.

Atleast don't shy away from your trueself, there is always someone who accept you, so never settle with those who don't respect your presence.

You are one of those average people, you are one those person that makes up most of this population, we are no child prodigy, we are not best, neither worst at anything, but we exist, and make those prodigy feel special. we exist and we need to accept each other cause if we dont, nobody will.

you will never be too pretty,

you will never be too intelligent, nor you have to be.

ADVICE:

wonder , wonder, wonder until you find town to live,

shout, shout, shout until you find your voice to hear,  

 settle, settle,  never settle for something you didnt wanted to be.